I don't think some of you realize how clever and manipulative some "bullies" can be.
My gut tells me that Incognito has been doing this his entire life and is quite good at it. "bullying" can be anything from hiding Martin's football pads every single day before he gets to the field house, making other teammates ignore/alienate him during lunch or in the weight room, putting smelly shit in his locker or car, etc.
It's not as easy as, "Martin needs to stand up for himself." He is in a tough situation, he can't fight somebody for hiding his pads (especially if he can't prove who did it even though he probably knows who did), and he doesn't want the rest of the team to hate him more for going to the coaches or management and "tattle-tailing."
I played with some damn near professional bullies that were incredibly smart in how they picked on the weak. They did just enough to push buttons without actually making it look like they were doing anything all that wrong.
It's simply not ok. Teammates are supposed to help each other and stick together. Especially Olinemen and especially adults.
My gut tells me that Incognito has been doing this his entire life and is quite good at it. "bullying" can be anything from hiding Martin's football pads every single day before he gets to the field house, making other teammates ignore/alienate him during lunch or in the weight room, putting smelly shit in his locker or car, etc.
It's not as easy as, "Martin needs to stand up for himself." He is in a tough situation, he can't fight somebody for hiding his pads (especially if he can't prove who did it even though he probably knows who did), and he doesn't want the rest of the team to hate him more for going to the coaches or management and "tattle-tailing."
I played with some damn near professional bullies that were incredibly smart in how they picked on the weak. They did just enough to push buttons without actually making it look like they were doing anything all that wrong.
It's simply not ok. Teammates are supposed to help each other and stick together. Especially Olinemen and especially adults.
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