You were actually making decent sense, although I can easily argue that the "average" person doesn't know much about online gaming, let alone paying for it. Trying to explain to someone like my dad how to connect his PS3 online (which is simple as pie, all you read is the on screen prompts) and then trying to explain to him how he also needs to wither enter in his credit card or buy a subscription card are two entirely different beasts.
But you completely lost it with the bolded part. First of all TONS of people ONLY care about bluray. And you are fucking insane if you think it's a negligible difference. Maybe if you're playing on a standard def tv. And don't if get me started on the audio. It's not even a contest. I'm not sure when the last time you shopped for blurays but most are around $20 now and there are tons that are $10.
More exclusives on 360? Keep dreaming. Just check wikipedia son. PS3 has quite a few more to this point and more expected.
And another thing I forgot that the PS3 has and 360 doesn't is an internet browser. The average consumer loves being able to surf the 'net on their big screen.
I play on a 61" Samsung and it just isn't a big enough deal to the majority of people I've talked to about this. Every PS3 owner I know personally, including myself, says the Blu-Ray isn't a big deal. Yes it is nice and all, but it's not a deal breaker by any means. You can get a Blu-Ray player for $30-$40 these days without any deals.
I said the more popular exclusives, but maybe that is because the 360 is more popular in general leading to more sales. The most popular 360 exclusives have outsold the most popular PS3 exclusives. It wasn't about who had more, it was about who had the most popular.
The nice thing I used to love about my PS3 was the browser so I will agree with you there. Now I just use my PC that is connected to my HDTV so I use the PC rather than the PS3, but it is a very nice addition.