So I saw the movie today. It has such a different feel to it than the other 2, and really any of the other movies in the MCU. Like it feels so different, that I'm still not really able to compare it to the other 2 Iron Man movies. It was good, I definitely enjoyed it. I wont spoil anything for you who haven't seen it or read spoilers, but I think I can see where the people who are into the comics have a problem with a part of this movie, and it felt a little weird even to me. As for the whole Tony Stark/Iron Man being phased out thing, after seeing the movie I don't believe that will be the case, although I could see how it would come off like that from reading about it. Tony Stark will definitely still be around, and I believe Iron Man will as well. I think it was more of the character just rebooting himself after all this shit he went through during and after Avengers. Although who knows, I could be wrong lol.
Definitely excited for Thor: The Dark World and the rest of Phase 2 to see where all of this goes.