Finally, on Wednesday morning, D’Antoni asked to meet with team officials and with James L. Dolan, the Madison Square Garden chairman. D’Antoni asked Dolan if he would be open to trading Anthony before Thursday’s 3 p.m. trading deadline, according to a person briefed on the meeting. When Dolan said no, D’Antoni offered to resign.
The team characterized the parting as mutual, but the decision to walk away “was absolutely Mike’s,” according to a D’Antoni associate.
D’Antoni initially suggested resigning in a morning meeting with Glen Grunwald, the interim general manager, and Allan Houston, the assistant general manager.
The decision stunned D’Antoni’s friends, as well as the Knicks’ players, a majority of whom were loyal to D’Antoni and believed strongly in his system. Many were angry and disappointed, believing that D’Antoni may have been pushed out.
D’Antoni concluded that the continuing tension was hurting both him and Anthony and ultimately sinking the Knicks, associates said. With his contract expiring after the season, D’Antoni decided that it was best to sever ties now and let the Knicks determine the best way to maximize Anthony’s skills.
“I was disappointed,” Jeffries said. “I love Coach. He’s the best coach that I’ve had in the N.B.A.”
Jeffries and Stoudemire were among the handful of players who spoke directly with D’Antoni, who told them it was the best move for the team.
“He just said it was like the point of no return,” Jeffries said. “If he holds on much longer, we might never get out of this. We might be in a position where we didn’t make the playoffs, and he said he didn’t want that for us. He said as a team, we were talented enough to make the playoffs and make a run and that he really wasn’t getting through to us the way he wanted to.”