lol PB that's to easy of a question, unless a freestyle gamer comes in here and gets way off-topic, everyone's gonna basically have the same answer.
The style of madden that I like to play is a mixture of SIM and Freestyle.
The SIM play comes in because I'm not gonna RC,Nano,Option(08),All curls, or any other things like that, that are obviously "exploits".
But the Freestyle play comes in because I'm not gonna always punt on 4th, I might use the same play/formation for majority of the game.
That's how I like to play, obviously it's understandable to ask that your opponent won't RC/Nano, but IMO asking them to always punt on 4th and to not use the same plays is alittle overboard.
IMO if I can't stop a certain play then my opponent has the right to run it as many times as they like, just as if you can't stop a certain play/formation that I'm using then expect to get a heavy dose of it.
Players in real life can't RC/Nano so that's why I consider it non-sim.
But coaches can go for it whenever they want and call whatever play they want whenever they want and however many times they want to. Coaches in real life have to option so I think players who play the game should have the option.
That's how I like to play madden.