You have to have an assassin mentality like Jordan, Bird, Isiah, & Kobe. They didn't give a fuck about teammates' hurt feelings. At 'winning time', they were taking over. They wanted the ball in THEIR hands, and they were going to take the opponents' heart by any means necessary, and no mfer was going to stop them. LeBron has done that, he doesn't do it enough. As Danny Green noted, sometimes he stops himself.