If you aren't putting Harden in your Top 10, just don't make a Top 10.
He proved, without a shadow of a doubt, that he is a legitimate star in this league. He took a team otherwise contending for the #1 pick to the playoffs in the Western Conference. That's a real man right there.
You will never win with Carmelo...ever. If he is your star on your team you simply will never win. For that fact alone, he will never be in my top 10. He's a good player, very talented. But he's not a winning player. It is why Dwight Howard gets knocked down...he WAS a winning, foundation player, but the past three years extinguished that notion. It is why I can't give a token rub to DeMarcus Cousins, who, as insanely talented as he is, isn't a foundation player yet and with his attitude, may never be. It is also why I give Roy Hibbert a bit of a bump...he's a guy you go into the playoffs with and he's instantly a difference maker. He's not as talented as say a LaMarcus Aldridge, and he's as good as Brook Lopez, just in a different way...but when you get to the playoffs, he's a rock and over the course of seven games, a difference maker.
Also all things equal, the big always gets the bump over the guard...thats why you should always have Duncan over Parker.