Last Friday the Aaron Lynch messages started pouring into my phone, and the 7 stages of grief quickly followed:
1. Shock and Denial – No, he can’t be leaving. He just came back home from Ohio after Easter. This is a cruel Twitter joke, right?!
2. Pain & Guilt – Why can’t this program catch the break it needs? Isn’t there more we as fans could have done to keep him on campus? Should we have Tweeted at him more frequently and left more comments on his Facebook page? (answer: definitely not)
3. Anger & Bargaining – Forget the integrity of the program. Why aren’t boosters writing checks to keep this kid around? We can make some exceptions for future top 10 NFL draft picks.
4. Depression, Reflection, Loneliness – I may never see Notre Dame in another BCS game. Maybe my best Notre Dame memories will really be from Ty’s first year.
5. The Upward Turn – Hey, we still have Tuitt, Nix and KLM. Things might be able to turn out better than I thought.
6. Reconstruction & Working Through – The team held practice on Saturday? Huh, I guess they’re going to figure out a way to get through this. If they can do it, and they, ya know – actually have something legitimate at stake, I guess I should be able to do it too.
7. Acceptance & Hope – Well, it doesn’t seem like he’s going to change his mind. This team still has BCS written all over it, though! They’ll work harder and will be even better without Lynch!!!!!
*Note: These stages of grief may or may not have been replaced with lots of tears, punches through dry wall, and Bud Lights.