You act as if you'd be so smooth and calm with your mother dying in a hospital bed and you, having the knowledge, that she would probably be dead within 20 minutes.
people panic, people get excited, and what the officer did was wrong...
EVEN IF you take your first point into account, when he gave the officer the insurance, the officer STILL wouldn't let him go, but made him stay as he filled out the ticket... so your logic is fucked either way.
and your a shit human being for even saying what you've said, I don't wish anything bad on anyone, but I wouldn't feel the least bit sorry for you if something like this happened to you. as far as I'm concerned, you probably deserve it.