lol at the Raimi bashing.
http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/spiderman/
http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/spiderman_2/
The second one was considered the best comic book movie ever until Dark Knight. Its still top 3.
There were alot of tough decisions that had to be made with the first Spiderman. They mode most of them right.
Tobey was a fantastic spiderman/peter parker. The webshooter decision was from a James Cameron draft which covered up the biggest flaw in comic books as to why a guy who's a human spider has every ability but the one that spiders are actually known for.
Neither version is true to the comic origins and both took major liberties for the sake of story telling. Parker was gifted and exceptional. He may have made it into Mensa but he wasnt a lab scientist "genius" type until later rewrites of his character. Neither movie portray him as a genius.
The only time the movie alludes to him being an actual genius is showing his ability to put together a Hollywood level costume with intricate stitching and materials...all by hand.
IMO both movies made the right choices for there respective needs. The best decision by far in this reboot was the use of night time shots. The first one was almost exclusively daytime shots which just highlights the limitations of the CGI back then. Today you have better cameras , better cgi , and night time combining into a far more believable engrossing spiderman. Kirsten Dunst was always an atrocious pick. Emma Stone is fantastic , had FAR better chemistry ((even though no scene actually topped the upside down kiss form the original)) , and was a better actress. Garfields Spiderman/Parker is a shade better than Macguires. Uncle Ben and Aunt May were acted far better. The villain was nowhere near as compelling as Goblin but the fights were better and more entertaining then the goblin fights.
Overall wasnt as "fun" as seeing the first one since there really was no awe factor of finally seeing Spiderman on the big screen. This one however was far more emotionally involving than any of the first 3 and IMO just as good and Id have no argument if someone said it was a bit better.
As for sequels...