- "How To Love" is a brilliant song. Don't let the constant radio spins and Facebook statuses affect your opinion of it. In a time where most women are motivated by Ke$ha's newest single and the sexual pressures that exist in our society, it's refreshing that a rapper with some of the most sexually motivating lyrics can create a song about true love. It's a catchy song, but what puts it over the top is its message. Wayne singing it without the aid of auto-tune makes it so much better too, because although he's not even close to being a great singer, it makes it more real and heartfelt.