Blue Valentine (2010)
Once crazy about each other, Cindy (Michelle Williams) and Dean (Ryan Gosling) have now grown apart. Cindy is bored and disenchanted with her life while Dean languishes in the emotional emptyness of their sexless, routine life in rural Pennsylvania. As they muddle through their marriage, they hearken back to the golden days when life was filled with possibility and romance.
Do you know when you have created something special? You take a subject nobody would want to watch, like a deteriorating marriage, and turn it into something that not only connects heavily with its viewers, but makes it one of the most entertaining watches of the year.
The film never tries to win you over. It doesn’t want you to root for anyone one person; the goal it seems to have in mind is to show you the brutal truth of what majority married couples end up going through. This relationship of theirs is not the worst of situations, but it’s far from happy. Through the use of timely flashbacks, you watch how the relationship has changed, how these two people changed, how fast everything seemed to die. At some point, people go through an experience like this to some degree. Blue Valentine doesn’t show you the answers; it leaves itself for you to decide.
It wouldn’t have worked if it weren’t for the phenomenal performance of Ryan Gosling, who was completely snubbed at the Oscars. In the course of the film, his transformation is nothing short of amazing. He couldn’t have put himself out there anymore then he did. It’s career defining. His spouse, Michelle Williams, does a great job herself, but feels very underwhelming in scenes with her better half. The thing that makes this film and characters work is both are the villains here. They let this happen to themselves and their flaws got the best of them. It’s one of the rare times when the film ends abruptly, but leaves you completely satisfied.
If Blue Valentine had a flaw it’s that it’s a bit one-sided on the perspectives of every relationship. In the film’s world, every relationship is doomed to fail, but every day we witness otherwise. It’s a small splinter on an otherwise giant surface. While I do recommend this to just about everyone, don’t expect any excitement at all. There hasn’t a more depressing movie since Leaving Las Vegas, and could turn a few heads off.
Overall Score: 9/10