I liked the guy as a baller, but a roll model for his children by his actions and love for his wife by cheating on her, get real. The guy was a fake. Anyone who does that is a bum in my book, I don't care what you accomplish on the ball field, it's doesn't make you a good person. I do feel bad for his wife and kids. He put his life out there in the spot light and now they have to deal with the consequences of his bad choices in being a crappy person.
So don't get your panties in a bunch, if he wasn't who he was and just an average Joe like you and me, who would care? If we did what he did they would call us a cheating bum and a crappy father for cheating on his wife and kids. So the answer to your question is YES I'm for real.